Best Sex Positions to Last Longer in Bed - Are You Ready For Enhanced Sexual Endurance With These?

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Have you been looking for sex positions that will help you fix premature ejaculation and last longer in bed? Well, your search ends here, to use an often-used cliche! There are sex positions that will not only maximize her sexual pleasure, but will also add minutes to your sex without any additional effort! Interested to learn more? I thought so too! Keep reading...

The Best Positions to Last Longer In Bed

Position #1 - "The Surreptitious Female Rider"
This is perhaps the best position for you if you are looking to last longer. Let her mount atop you while having sex. There are 2 advantages to this position:
Greater Control: You can control your arousal completely. This is because this position allows your body to be completely relaxed and stress-free. You are lying on your back and just enjoying the sensations coursing through your body. When you are this relaxed, you can control your arousal whenever you want.
Putting Her In Charge: The best advantage to this position is that she is in charge of the stimulation. Her rhythmic movements might inflame you, but you are in total control of your arousal and you can relax or tighten your pelvic muscles with total ease. How great is that?
Position #2 - "The Reversing Female Rider"
This is another great position you can try out. This is the reverse of Position #1. This is where your partner mounts you, but in a 'facing away' position. You can try this variation after adopting the traditional female rider. It can help vary the stimulation, without losing the fun and pleasure of the act.
So the next time you want to beat premature ejaculation and last longer, without spoiling the fun of the act or making it obvious, try these 2 positions. Vary between the two after a while during lovemaking. This is the best way to enjoy the pleasures that these different positions offer, while maintaining your arousal and erection for a longer time.

How Does A Position Change Help Me Last Longer?

It helps you in 2 ways:
1.  Appearing More Dominant: Women like guys to take charge in bed. So, when you change positions every now and then, you are actually increasing your attraction in bed!
2.  No Obvious Changes: When you are in the middle of an enjoyable sexual encounter, you don't want to do something to distract or annoy her! Subtly changing positions is the best way to manage your arousal, while not appearing too obvious about it. You can use a number of sex positions to both vary your pleasure and to last longer in bed. Try the two variations above and get more out of that love encounter!

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Prevent Premature Ejaculation - Are These 4 Myths Killing Your Sexual Stamina in Bed?

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Are you sick and tired of being embarrassed whenever you ejaculate too soon during sex? Do you wish you could last longer in the sack and bring your woman to an orgasm before you cave into your own sexual arousal? I am sure you do! In fact over 75% of men wish they had greater staying power and could put the brakes on early ejaculation. Well, then you should first learn about these myths of premature ejaculation (PE) and banish your early ejaculation woes for good.

Myth #1 - Premature ejaculation is a sexual disease that has no cure

Although PE can be clinically diagnosed as a sexual ailment, it is in no way a disease or a form of illness. There are many causes of premature ejaculation, but the key ones are more adequately labeled as psychological or mental issues. In fact, with the proper conditioning and re-education, you can easily reverse a lifetime of ejaculation problems that stem from early years when you first discovered your own sexuality.

Myth #2 - You can use "distraction techniques" to last longer in bed

Well, yes and no. Some men find that thinking of something other than sex can prevent them from getting aroused too soon. But this is not an ideal solution as it distracts you from actually enjoying sex. Truth is, with some practice, you can experience the full splendor of lovemaking and attain great control over your ejaculation at the same time.

Myth #3 - If you ejaculate within 2 minutes, you have premature ejaculation

This is really subjective. You see, men can be classified as premature ejaculators if they consistently cannot last more than 2 minutes during sex. But if you can bring your woman to an orgasm in less than 2 minutes, then you are really not suffering from PE! It all depends on whether your woman is fulfilled during lovemaking. If she's truly satisfied even in a rapid sex session, you are way ahead of most men in your sexual performance!

Myth #4 - Pills are the best way to treat early ejaculation issues

Although some pills claim to add hours to your sexual endurance, there is no hard evidence to back this up. In fact there is no FDA-regulated medication or drug on the market that is proven to boost your stamina on bed. As PE is largely due to psychological underpinnings, behavioral or natural conditioning methods that address the mental triggers of ejaculation are the best ways to permanently counter PE.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Have Longer Sex - Optimize Your Sexual Stamina With This Secret (Works Like a Charm!)

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Many companies want you to believe that you can last longer in bed by using the veritable avalanche of products in their offerings. While you can add minutes to your sexual encounters using stuff like numbing sprays, specialty condoms or special ointments, these products have their own severe limitations. For one, you have to continually depend on them whenever you want to have sex. They are not a permanent cure; just a temporary "band-aid".

Lasting Longer Through Arousal Control

The best way to last longer during sex is by controlling your arousal during sex. To achieve this sexual milestone, you have to first understand the four stages of male sexual arousal. Arousal is basically the sensations you go through when you become sexually stimulated. By paying close attention to how your body responds and reacts throughout these four stages, you will be in a better position to control how long each stage lasts and enjoy sex to the fullest.

The Stages Of Sexual Arousal (Simplified)

Briefly, stage one is when your penis starts to get an erection; stage two takes place when the arousal begins to increase, your erection becomes full but you are still in control. Stage three occurs when the arousal intensifies, your penis glans expand, become more sensitive and you are right on the edge of ejaculation. This culminates into stage four when your nervous system tips over, causing your perineal muscles to contract and releasing ejaculation.
To last longer in bed, you basically need to stretch out the four stages for as long as possible. "Premature ejaculators" can go from stage one to four within a minute or less while those with superior endurance can extend their lovemaking to an hour or more.
Among the four stages of arousal, stage two holds the key. This means you have to strive to remain in stage two for as long as you can. Once you hit stage three, there is practically no turning back - even if your mother suddenly trots into your room!

Achieving "Arousal Longevity"

So how do you achieve longevity in stage two? Simple - by relaxing your entire mind and body. This key to do this is to focus on giving rather than taking. Read that again! It is that important.
You need to concentrate on exclusively giving your woman sexual pleasure by touching, caressing and stimulating her erogenous areas - the very ones that she love to be touched. Every woman is different, so you got to find out where these are! By taking focus away from your own genital pleasure, you can dwell in stage two for as long you as want, until your lady is sufficiently stimulated to have intercourse.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation (Secrets to Boost Stamina in Bed Exposed!)

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

If you have been wondering about how to beat premature ejaculation and increase your stamina in bed, you will want to read this now. Did you know that masturbation - if performed in the right way - can boost your sexual stamina? It's true. However, there are 4 important tips you need to remember if you are ever going to make a success out of it.

Tip #1 - Don't Ever Do It Without the Right Lubricant

The purpose of masturbation, especially when you are doing it to last longer in bed, is to make the experience as close as you can to normal sex. When you masturbate without a lubricant, your penis becomes extremely sensitive to a dry hand. So, once you start your experience with your woman, your penis will not be able to adjust to a warm and moist environment. Always use a lubricant when you are masturbating. It is the smart thing to do.

Tip #2 - Do Not Rush Through It

Men are naturally hardwired to stimulate themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation. But to adapt masturbatory techniques to boost sexual endurance, you have to do it differently. Take it S-L-O-W. If you are the type who gets it over in one minute flat, you may have a tough job getting used to it. Here's the trick: Stop all stimulation when you feel close to a climax.
Remember, masturbation should be a process of training when you have premature ejaculation. Rushing through it - no matter how eager you are about getting off - is the worst thing you do. You should progressively stretch the process out to 15 to 20 minutes, so that you reap real benefits from this technique.

Tip #3 - Do Not Get Distracted

The right time to train yourself is when you are relaxed, and not likely to be distracted. If you are in a hurry, just don't do it.

Tip #4 - Avoid Getting Overly Excited

Most men go about using this technique in an incorrect manner. You see, some men will watch pornography until they start getting an arousal. Then they start to stimulate themselves. That is wrong. Ideally, you should be building up the arousal right from the start. It is only then that you will understand when and how to control your arousal, which is the most vital component in helping you enjoy longer lasting sex without ejaculating early.
Remember, you can use masturbation not just for your own self-seeking pleasure, but as a super effective springboard to control your premature ejaculation. These four tips will get you started the right way.

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

Do You Ejaculate Too Fast During Sex? Stop! 3 Things About Premature Ejaculation You Should Know!

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

Am I ejaculating too fast during sex? Do women find my lack of sexual stamina laughable? Am I really pleasing my girl in bed each time I have sex? Do these sound like questions you have been asking yourself lately? If they do, don't be ashamed about it. In fact, as many as forty percent of men have some issues about not lasting long enough in bed. So you are definitely not alone in finishing too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate the moment they penetrate their partners.
If you are like many men who wish they could last longer, you probably have many questions about premature ejaculation. If so, this article is just for you. Keep reading as we find answers to three common questions asked.
How long does the average man last in bed?
Five to ten minutes is a common yardstick, although most men are closer to five minutes. Considering the fact that most women take an average of fifteen minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it only means that the vast majority of women are unable to experience the full pleasures of lovemaking.

Is lasting longer always better?

Most men think so. BUT here's the simple truth. You only need to last as long as it takes for her to get an orgasm. And it does not even need to be through vaginal penetration! You see, women are capable of reaching a climax through a variety of means. Foreplay, oral sex, and yes - even, mental seduction is known to cause an orgasm in a woman! As long as she receives her orgasm, the amount of time you spend penetrating her does not really matter. Hint: Take your time during foreplay and bring her to a climax before intercourse. Even if you do not last 30 seconds into intercourse, you are way better than 99% of all men!

I want to impress a hot date in bed at short notice... what can I do?

There is a quick and easy way to sort this out. Masturbate about an hour or two before you are due to have sex. By "clearing up your pipes" and releasing your sexual tension, your penis will become less responsive and it takes longer to stimulate it to the same levels of excitement. This stop-gap measure can easily add crucial minutes when you have sex. And she wouldn't know a thing about it, either!

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

Premature Ejaculation Facts - 4 Tantalizing Truths About Early Ejaculation You Don't Want to Miss!

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

If you want to understand how to control premature ejaculation, you have to start off with the facts first. After all, how can you cure a condition (common as it is) without understanding the factors behind it?

Fact #1 - Do I have premature ejaculation?

Start with the basics. Do you have premature ejaculation? It is quite common among men. However, I won't say that you have it if you are just complaining about not lasting an hour in bed. Truth is, premature ejaculation occurs when you ejaculate before you or you partner want you to.
I can understand the frustration and pain you go through when you fail to satisfy your women repeatedly. The good news is that in most cases there is no medical reason behind it. What's more, it is not something you have to tolerate forever. There are authentic ways in which you can tackle PE for good.

Fact #2 - Why do I have premature ejaculation?

Well, it is usually the result of two factors.
1.  Genetic Programming - This is the result of years of genetic conditioning. Sex is primarily meant for reproduction and not for pleasure. After all, what did cave men care about satisfying their women? It is a genetic programming among men that make them fail to last longer. So take heart. It is not your fault. You are just the result of Mother Nature's efficient means of human reproduction!
2.  Overly Responsive Nervous System: When men are younger, their nervous systems are more acutely attuned to sexual sensations. As a result, younger men suffer more from PE. Your condition should improve as you get older.
The great news is that with a responsive nervous system, you have less chances of getting an erectile dysfunction (another common sexual dysfunction) even when you age!

Fact #3 - Do I need to go to a doctor?

In all likelihood - no. Of course you can arrange for a visit just to make sure that there is nothing medically wrong with you. After all, you don't need to go on worrying if a simple antibiotic can clear up your problem!

Fact #4 - How can I satisfy a woman even with premature ejaculation? 

The truth is that women vary in the time they take to come to an orgasm during sex. While some may take up to 20 minutes to reach a climax, others may need just 5 minutes! The trick is to understand YOUR woman and how to satisfy her according to what she needs. Does she prefer foreplay? What about oral sex? These are great ways to give her a tantalizing climax before you even begin penetration!

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

What is Premature Ejaculation (And What You Can Do About it to Achieve Explosive Sexual Stamina!)

By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand.com

What exactly is premature ejaculation? Well, it depends on who you ask. But the common consensus is that if you regularly come to a climax too early during sex without fulfilling your partner, you may be one of many men who are suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). As many as one in three men are believed to be afflicted with this sexual dysfunction. Actual figures may actually be higher as this is an embarrassing ailment that not many guys are willing to openly discuss.

What are the symptoms of premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation can be categorized by lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). The former can be characterized by early ejaculation within one minute following intercourse. This is often accompanied by a severe lack of confidence in bed and in worst cases, an avoidance of sex altogether. On the other hand, secondary PE is often marked by persistent ejaculation before both you and your partner wish that it happens. Guys who are experiencing secondary PE usually have enjoyed fulfilling sexual relationships in the past.

Are you at risk?

There are some men who are at higher risks of developing premature ejaculation. These include guys who are suffering from some form of erectile dysfunction. Men who have problems with erection often subconsciously hurry through sexual intercourse for fear of losing their erections. One of the biggest contributors to early ejaculation is stress or emotional strain. So men who are often emotionally stressed out are at a higher risk of ejaculating early during sex. This is nature's way of releasing tension that has been pent up.

Do you need to seek medical attention?

If your lack of sexual endurance is causing great distress to you and your partner, it is recommended that you seek medical assistance. The doctor would be able to advice on the appropriate treatment to help you cope with the problem. In some cases, the doctor will even suggest that you are not even experiencing early ejaculation, especially if it occurs only occasionally. Likewise, if you can satisfy your partner even if you do not last more than 2 to 4 minutes during intercourse, there is no real cause for concern.

Coping with premature ejaculation

There are many forms of treatments, and what you choose to use will depend on the severity of your condition. These options include natural sexual therapy and conditioning, such as the squeeze technique to re-wire your ejaculatory triggers; medications that include the use of anti-depressants or topical anesthetic creams or sprays.
The bottom line is, premature ejaculation is very common and is a treatable condition. By understanding why you are ejaculating prematurely, you can use the appropriate solutions to permanently end your ejaculation problems and achieve the coveted ability to enjoy long-lasting sex!

About the author:

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.